Everything is changing, including you, me, and everyone. At 70 years old and with 6 children, one thing I have learned over and over is how our children evolve and change over time. The dangerous trap we can fall into with our children, and others, is our tendency to see
“Now keep looking at this unpleasant situation or person until you realize that it isn’t they that are causing the negative emotions. They are just going their way, being themselves, doing their thing whether right or wrong, good or bad. It is your computer that, thanks to your programming,
Before I continue down the winding road of my journey through Hazelden and then becoming a house husband, I want to share my thoughts on the patterns of thinking and behaviors that have made me so resilient, at least in the eyes of people like my friend Ann Masten (a